i'm sorry dair fans...

I am apologizing to all the Dair fans I may have offended or made angry. Everything I said was immature and uncalled for. I now know what you guys mean about Chair being an abusive relationship. I asked my mom to watch the last few episodes with me. My intended plan was for her to agree with me but she didn’t. She actually started crying. I asked her what’s wrong and she told me Blair reminded her of herself when she was in an abusive relationship as a teenager. She told me her story about her being afraid of the leave the boy and afraid of what her friends and family would think if they found what he does. I asked her if he ever laid a finger on her and she said no. But she told me his words hurt more because he was making her feel like she was nothing and she told me no one that claims they love should do that. Her ex boyfriend would make her feel ugly and says he is a only one who would ever love her. She told me when she left him, it felt like the weight of the world was lifted off her shoulder and she felt beautiful and herself again. She was angry at herself because she never talked to me about it and now here I was supporting this couple. I feel awful for unintentionally making my mom remember her past relationship. I also feel awful for harassing you guys.

Now I see that a lot of things that Chuck did was more selfish and possessive than romantic. I hope you guys can forgive me and I also hope for the rest of the Chair fans to see that this is not a healthy relationship. I have a boyfriend right now and it makes me sick to think I wanted him to be more like Chuck. I guess I was blinded by the grand gesture of love Chuck would so often give to Blair that every bad thing he does didn’t matter. I’m glad my boyfriend is nothing like Chuck, he might not be so romantic but atleast he would never hurt me on purpose. Wow, sorry for telling my life story.

http://www.recovery-man.com/abusive/abusive_signs.htm

http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/relationships/abuse.html